Love letters and poems. Presents with a nice little red bow. These all delivered daily to your home or work place. Phone calls with suggestions to have a romantic dinner with you.This would be nice if the gifts and romantic gestures would come from your lover. However, they all come from your ex boyfriend or girlfriend who is still in love with you. You have tried to convince them that it is over and you are never going to get back together, but they just don't get it.Sometimes ex lovers are so obsessed about their past relationship that they just don't want to let go. There are situations that have last months, or even years. It can be very hard task to convince an obsessed ex to move on because you don't want them back.You don't want to hurt their feelings, yet you do need to get your message across as clearly as possible. You may need to invest a little time in the situation - take them for a coffee or to lunch to discuss things.But keep the upper hand, and stay in control at all times. An ex who is, at best, needy and, at worst, obsessed, will take every chance available to try to manipulate you, even if they don't realize that's what they're doing.
Be careful not to let any time you spend with them become another opportunity for them to talk about getting back together.If nothing seems to work, and your ex is still obsessed about you, you can ask your friend or someone in your family to talk with them. If some outsider talks about the situation to your ex, and tell them that it is time to let go and move on, they may finally understand it.To set this in stone, return any gifts your ex has given you since the breakup. You may also want to return any gifts of significance that were given during the relationship, such as an engagement ring, a diamond necklace, or an expensive coat. This will show your ex that you mean business.When you have tried every possible option, and nothing has convinced your ex that it is over, you have to cut all connections. If it requires to change your email address and phone number, do it.Getting rid of from obsessed ex is sometimes difficult. If you don't have any feelings for your ex, and don't ever want to get back together with them, you have to make this clear. This is best thing to do, not only for you, but also to your ex as well.
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